Good feature in the Guardian

Thanks Ella - fame at last ;)

Submitted by Jason on Fri, 08/04/2011 - 21:59

Thanks Ella - fame at last ;)

It is a great article, and helps open up a very awkward issue for so many people. Big thanks to Tanith Carey for bringing it to light.

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Submitted by moomin on Fri, 08/04/2011 - 22:51

This article bought me here and I am so pleased

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Submitted by Bootylicious on Mon, 11/04/2011 - 21:02

That article brought me here. I am a regular Guardian reader and it caught me thinking whether my once a day masturbation was normal. I like to do it whereas I am watching online porn. Every day I choose a different category. My boyfriend and I live in different countries for the last two months. I was not masturbating when we cohabited. I find it hard not to feel in tune with my body and appreciate the softness and firmness of my skin and the sensibility of my breast, neck, tummy, pubic area, etc. When my boyfriend and I make love I try to tell him what I like with delicacy in case he gets offended. However, I always end up flicking my clit hard to cum, otherwise it'd be a lost case. I also visualise the porn I would have recently watched whilst I make love to my boyfriend.
I once told him I liked watching porn and that I would not mind to be part of a sex group. He got completely horrified and I felt he would always ask me what I am thinking as we make love, twice a day at least for the 8 months we cohabited.
I believe porn can be shared with your couple and I would like that! My mistake: considering porn as my imaginary getaway to sex group rather than a simple movie. I feel repressed and I can't tell I watch porn to my boyfriend. I know he would feel hurt.

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